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Lessons
from my
Unexpected Life

From the beginning, my life has been unexpected 
and against the odds. 

Coming Fall 2026

Lessons from the Unexpected:

Living with Prolonged Grief Disorder

The Memoir

Written by Columbia-trained PGD specialist and unexpected widow, Gera Krahe McGuire, this book offers a candid field guide for when deep, traumatic grief refuses to move.

Free Resource

While you wait for the launch, download Gera's free guide: "How to Say No When You're Grieving."

The Memoirs
Lessons from my Unexpected Life

The Early Years

The 20 Somethings

Unexpected Widowhood

Everyday Reflections

Lessons from an Unexpected Motherhood

Tales from my journey through miscarriages, adoptions, solo-widowed parenting and more

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Lessons from Unexpected Friendships

 "Many people will walk in and out of your life, 

but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart." 

-Eleanor Roosevelt

Everyday Reflections

Ongoing essays about living an unexpected life

He Saw Me

"It would make me so happy to love you that way," he said, forcing me to stand down. Sixteen years after losing my husband, I am still learning how to step out of the relentless sprint of solo parenting and simply allow myself to receive.

Tall Tale

There was a time when I couldn’t look at anything of Bob’s without crying. But finding his old clothes brought smiles instead of tears this time, proving that  grief is a manifestation of love.

Perspective

Lessons from my late husband regarding abundance and grace.  The material is immaterial; it's the mortals that matter most.

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